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Can a man and a woman just be friends?

Introduction

Have you seen or heard the father and son, mother, daughter, husband, wife, boss, subordinates, brother or sister of a friend? Maybe so, but the pace and the real. In the afternoon, is the message: "My Tumhe PABA-hoon Lee Joo-Hoon Kahta Caro" (I am your father, I can say). I recently asked the question: "Is that a man and a woman grew just friends" and the answers are shocking (see below). I said, friendship is the choice of the relationship. But, as you know the meaning of "friendship" Yes, you know, I have read in some newspapers and magazines, but what about its implementation.

Understanding of friendship

Prior to and I know you know that friendship can be an antidote to boredom, depression or loneliness, or even be. But it should be a little more than an antidote to these problems. What are the qualities to lead a great friendship?

First of friendship to be real. The friendships that shows what we are and what we are able to be. Friends request to disclose, without masks or claim, without emotion or illusion. Summary of GK Chesterton about the risks are combined with the cultivation of a friendship that situation when he said. "Friends are sure that these defects"

A further element in the cultivation of friendship is needed generous. Friendship is its own reward. Christ the vineyard, he said. "Greater love than to give his life for his friends"

Another attributes of friendship is that it is free. This is a gift or a quote from one person to another. The friendship is not clouded by jealousy. There must be a separation between the two friends. Otherwise it can be a problem of the greed of suffocation, and even friendship.

Other qualities mentioned develop strong friendships. And the sense of humor, love, understanding and compassion are just some of the components that must be cultivated by a strong friendship between them.

Just the thought on the subject. For many people in this world, life is cold, lonely and difficult. If I had a friend, your life is not only different, but happier. Friendship is a touch of paradise on earth. Again, you can use a piece of heaven on a person's life.

The friendship between men and women

Therefore, the strong bonds of friendship between a man and a woman is sometimes difficult to understand and accept, although rather accept the relationship between two women or men in our society. When a man and a woman of one year, they will automatically assume that they are in love. Friends, friends and lovers and lovers. Very few people, and physically affectionate with his friends. People find it difficult to separate sex and love. If the people be in love with the expression of two-out love and affection of others. The truth is simple: two people are related, feel comfortable and at a special bond of friendship between them.

Sometimes you want that friendship is, of course, and people are willing to give if the love and get married or have long-term relationship. In the case of sexual or romantic love, and prefer to be the best for him.

Factors that if a man and a woman, and can be just friends, or choose not to you, and we discuss here, and Afrer others.

1- your mental and emotional state: "We need a high level of understanding, maturity and waveforms for each pair in the idea of ​​intimacy away from your heart to support the relationship.

2- school and college where he studied in art. If you studied in the "all boys and girls of all" types of schools, universities, and it is likely that their relationship with the opposite sex is clean and clear compared to those who have studied the system of co-education "

3- the number of friends with the opposite sex: they have more friends of the opposite sex, and there is a possibility that his friendship with the people who clean ... With the ideas of privacy in relation to those which only one or friends of the opposite sex have been limited.

4- Family history: If the system of family values, more orthodox and traditional, very strict ... Then sometimes ... The chances are good that not only friends with someone of the opposite sex.

5- In the stage of life that says: If you have a lot of rejection and emotional instability, frustration and a lot of fight and if you do not appreciate the power of their superiors and colleagues ... And involved the search for comfort, convenience, closely ... There they find acceptance and emotional well-being.

6- You are in this profession, type of organization are at work: As in the case of ... If you took control of the company of men or women or management ... There are also people tend to deal with people of different sexes.

7- and a happy marriage and happy marriage happy and successful, if not successful and happy life together ... You do not have the time and attention and affection they want and if you have a friend of the opposite sex that you take care of what developing time, affection and emotional support even more intimate ... Much higher than the "only" the idea of ​​friendship.

It is therefore possible that the "only" friendships with people of the opposite sex, and at the end of the term, depend meditation, and the need of the time. We discuss our thoughts, our feelings, but you can not say the same for someone of the opposite sex. You never know what your friend tells you about your group of friends.

In my personal experience so far ... I married many, a lot of "friends" in different cities and different countries, different ages, and the kind of attention and now I'm only just. We discussed our experiences and restaurants, cinema, picnic facilities and also give ... If there is a problem with respect to the professional and personal. But as I said ... I can tell you what I feel what I thought ... I can not say for sure and feel to believe.

If this problem in a sexual relationship and friendship between the two remained together throughout. Instead, watch sex and sex friendships and couples are often viewed separately from any other kind of friendship. If people can give this tradition was a friend of lovers and lovers of the past and enjoys a close and happy and useful. It also reflects a certain level of growth and maturity of personality.

With this statement, and I mean never, give solutions to their problems

A friend who can not give solutions to all life uncertainties, problems or worries, but I can listen, and together we can get answers. I can not change your past I have with me the endless forms of headache and pain, and no future with their stories, but now I can, if you need me to care.

I can not keep your feet covered. I can only take my hand can not be waived. May the joy, victory, success and happiness are not mine, but you can share your laughter and joy.

The decisions in your life is nothing to do for me, or judge, and I'm the only one to support, promote and help you if necessary. I can not respect borders, which are designed for you, but I can not change the area for the cultivation of space and space for themselves.

I can not break my heart and hurting, but I can grieve with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them into practice. I can not tell you who you are. I can love and be your friend.

Every morning when you open your eyes, you say you are special. Every day, every minute, every second is a gift from God, you all, dance seen and love does not hurt.

People say true friends must always have their hands, but true friends do not have hands, so knowing the other side always be there to hold.

Conclusion

"To examine the hand of friendship, some of the comfort, convenience, indescribable feeling of security to a person not by weight or measure of keyword suggestions, but will be extended, as they are, chaff and grain together and keep the faith, why is the value of contract and a hit with a touch of comfort, convenience. "

Not only in friendship but in all relationships of love is the engine that creates and preserves. This kind of love for each other friends, is the desire for knowledge, and service work. On the contrary, is the desire - the desire to acquire or retain their nationality and control. This will lead to the consciousness of other people to communicate - intellectually, emotionally and physically.

The doubts and suspicions and verbal barriers as possible that the depth of friendship to limit development. Hello and welcome to tell my friends what they think of each other without hindrance or fear of infringing others' feelings. So they resolve to eliminate doubts and suspicions about each other, and deepen the way of friendship.

Because friends love each other, never try to force majeure or control over another change for the better. Were just friends or the rest of the way it feels reported. Love stimulates the friend, said the change for the better. such as human resources will be converted to personal use - because friends love each other, it will not be another means to an end. Friend - a nice tender conscience - not as an end in itself. The end is the joy of sharing experiences and mutual love.

About the Author

Abdul Waheed, From Pakistan, 24, Male

"Heidelberger Platz" PJ

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